tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1947716635081106735.post416860707898393692..comments2023-07-02T01:32:05.682-07:00Comments on Bad Hall Director: Quarter-Life CrisisBadHallDirectorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04991415358312871879noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1947716635081106735.post-22901147513921172252012-04-18T06:21:49.798-07:002012-04-18T06:21:49.798-07:00You and me both, my friend. I don't know your ...You and me both, my friend. I don't know your exact age, but I'm 23 and I suspect you are close to that range if you're experiencing a quarter-life crisis. At this stage of our lives, I think it's perfectly natural to second-guess every decision we make. Like you, I spend a great deal of my time wondering what I could have done differently, but more importantly, where I should go from here. There are no easy answers...like an episode of Lost, the search for truth only brings more questions.<br /><br />I think it's about reinvention. To experience a quarter-life crisis you have to have some degree of satisfaction with your current lifestyle. I know I do, and that's why I'm in this boat. But breaking out of a comfortable cycle is one of the most difficult things you can ever do. You don't have to pay rent, and I'm still a grad student so I get to shy away from certain responsibilities as well (my student loans pay my rent). I'm not necessarily saying you should change your career, unless you are really burned out. Res Life is very draining...and makes the work-life balance very difficult to manage. <br /><br />You know yourself better than any of your readers, so all I can say is take a very honest assessment of yourself. What you see as your strengths, what you see as areas of improvement. What don't you like about where you are now? Where do you want to be? Identify a goal, then chase it. Even if it doesn't go as planned, that outcome will still be better than wondering "What if?"<br /><br />(Disclaimer: this advice is really easy to give, but tough to follow. As much as I desire to do the same thing every day, reality always seems to interfere. I feel ya. Trust me.)<br /><br />~ShaneShaneiferdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04803942549686024139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1947716635081106735.post-23348513673042118942012-04-16T13:01:02.394-07:002012-04-16T13:01:02.394-07:00I know exactly how you feel! Almost everyday I que...I know exactly how you feel! Almost everyday I question why I chose the route of becoming a hall director. I love working with my students...well most of them, but at times I would love to have work life/personal life balance. I question why in the world did I choose higher ed...or did higher ed choose me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com