Over
the past few weeks, my old boss has been shifted to another complex and a new
Area Coordinator has been hired in his place. At first, I was excited about a
change in leadership, especially since I think a bag of cat treats can
supervise better than my boss of 4 years. However, my elation quickly
disappeared and was replaced with dread and anger.
The new
boss, a rather nasty, older woman with apparent confidence issues, has already
told each of the hall directors under her that she is looking to “shake things
up”. This past Friday, Irene demanded we each write a two-page summary
justifying why we deserve to stay in our current assignment and why we are
suited for the RHD position. I have been in Residence Life for longer than she
has and this is the welcome we get.
Plus,
it is painfully obvious that the only other female hall director in my complex
(Emily) and I have large Target-inspired bull’s-eyes on our backs. Despite our
open arms approach when welcoming her to our campus, Irene scrutinized every
document, every incident report, and every RA request Emily and I have
completed for the last semester. But, the two guys on the staff are allowed to
do whatever they want without so much as a sideways glance from Irene; they
have been told to “do whatever is necessary to run a smooth staff and hall”.
I can
already sense a battle brewing. Why can’t women get along in the workplace? Why
is that some women feel threatened by other females who have no ill-intention
and simply want to learn from their experience? Irene could have learned a lot
from us, and we could have learned a lot from Irene. It’s about to get real
ugly up in here.
Hang in there and just do the best you can do. I know it sounds cliche. I had four bosses in less than three years due to changes within the department. Each one very different. If there is one thing you can learn from "Irene" it is what I learned from my four bosses. How to be a better supervisor.
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