Tonight,
I got dressed up in my Saturday best and headed out for the end-of-the-year
banquet held at the campus’ special event building—nothing but class for my
department! I was pleasantly surprised to find that all fourteen of my RAs had
arrived before I did, which meant they were on time. They looked very snazzy in
spring dresses and freshly pressed suits.
I'm a hall director. I'm a full-time babysitter, referee, and counselor for hundreds of students. Did I mention that I live with them all?
Sunday, April 22, 2012
RA Banquet: It’s that Time of the Year!
Okay,
yes, I have been a little cranky lately and my posts have reflected that. I blame
the Mayans. In honor of a positive day, here is my blog post:
Saturday, April 21, 2012
"Shackled by Debt"
My blog
title comes from the first picture in the Huffington Post article, “Obama
Administration, House Dems Push to Prevent Student Loan Rate Hike”. The picture
embodies what many students already feel—that they are unable to envision a
positive and prosperous future thanks to the overwhelming student debt they
have. This article (found here),
reports that Rep. Gary Peters (D-Mich.) and Rep. Joe Courtney (D-Conn.) are
working to prevent the doubling of the Federal Direct Stafford Loan rate from 3.4% to
6.8% come July 1, 2012.
Opponents
to the rate freeze argue that by not raising the student loan interest rate, it
would cost tax payers close to $6 billion.
Sadly,
I am a card-carrying member of the “Shackled by Debt” Club—a dubious honor I
wish I never had; hence why this topic makes me so angry and disillusioned.
When I was a junior in high school, my mom took me to every college fair in our
area. She pushed me to pick the college that had the perfect fit for my social
and academic needs, rather than on the price tag. Like all parents in the late
1990s, she assured me that a quality college education would be worth it in the
long run. So what did I do? I got a Masters in Education—at times like these, I
wish I had been an accountant instead.
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Memo: My Boss is a Chump
Today,
I came to the conclusion that good bosses and a positive work environment
belong in the same category as unicorns and calorie-free ice cream—things that
don’t exist.
Even
since I admitted that I was ready to move to another institution for a different
experience, those around me have taken pleasure in polluting my work space. They
revel in telling my boss the fictional rumors they create—they lie about me
leaving work early, yet forget to tell him how I attended a program with a 101
fever. They also neglect to mention how they spend their entire day playing
Words with Friends or posting pictures to Instagram, all while I am busting my
hump to get my work done so I can go home at a decent hour.
Monday, April 16, 2012
In Honor of the 32 Victims: 32 Words of Remembrance
Five years ago, Virginia Tech showed the nation how their strong community would carry them through the tragedy of April 16—they would not allow hate to define them. Live on Hokies!
Friday, April 6, 2012
Quarter-Life Crisis
Earlier
today, as I stared at myself in the mirror, I realized that I am in the middle
of a genuine quarter-life crisis. Even though I have been peering into the same
mirror everyday for the past few years or more, this morning was different. What
am I doing still living in a residence hall…at my age? Why am I still working a
job that has not made me feel completely fulfilled for some time? Did I waste
my potential by taking the hall director position? Did I make a mistake
choosing Education rather than Accounting?
Today,
I spent hours poring over every major decision I have made in my life and critically
questioned each of them. I have tried to be a person who lives without regret—everything
happens for a reason is my motto. But, at times like these, I wonder if I
should have taken college more seriously. I goofed off and skipped too many
classes, which made my trip to graduation a longer one. What if I had taken the
typical four years to get my Bachelors? Would I be the same person typing this
blog post?
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